If i was to have a romanitic night with a girl whom i have a casual relationship with,?

ok, if i was to take her out for dinner, walk by the lake/river, and a horse drawn carrage ride to the hotel where the following will be ready: a bubble bath in front of a fire, rose pedals layed through out the satin bedding (unless cotton is better) and lightly layed around the room, champagne being chilled, 12 boques of 12 dozen roses, unknown number of candles placed around the room, and 99 balloons (pink (33)/red (33)/white (33) balloons) flooting around the hotel room, would this be romantic? is there anything i should add or subtract? please help.

If i was to have a romanitic night with a girl whom i have a casual relationship with,?
If a guy I was having casual sex with did all those intimate romantic things, I would run away, unless I was in love with him. I would advise you to not overwhelm her...maybe one or two gestures would be enough...like take her out to dinner and see where the conversation goes and where her mind is.





While most women like romantic stuff, some of us just want to have casual sex with no strings attached...make sure you know where she is emotionally.
Reply:It's overkill...you'll frighten her, methinks. What about asking her what her favourite food or restaurant is? If you let her have input, perhaps she'll be more flattered. I think the best thing would be one or two small gestures at a time and see if she's being receptive...body language is even more important that what she says.
Reply:LMAO. I think it would be great. Maybe minus the whole hotel thing. Dinner and lake walks are awesome ... I've never been on a carriage ride except with my parents, but it'd be fun.





Maybe one single rose. Pink. Or just a bottle of not-too-expensive wine. That'll do. Otherwise, it's just way too much money to be dropping.





You like her more than just "casual"-like, it seems.
Reply:having a casual relationship with the girl, all that would scare the **** out of her.
Reply:I would be shocked and appalled at the waste of money (and so would many other onlookers). She may (rightly) feel that you were going too far, too fast; in which case you will be making her run away from you.





In addition, if you are so fabulously wealthy then give the money you save by not doing this to the needy; a woman would find this gesture much more impressive.





You could start an America-wide "Adopt-a-Bridge" charity; now THERE'S a worthwhile cause!